in brief: relationship hypothetical

another impossible and stupid question i sometimes like to pose to rhan is this little doozy: would you cheat on me with me?

it is a hypothetical situation that pits his fidelity as a partner against the extent to which he finds me irresistible. there is no good answer to this question, though there might very well be a right answer, which of course makes the whole inquiry just plain mean.

scramble the proposition, however, and ask me whether i, being me, would pursue rhan knowing he was currently involved with me, and i would probably answer "yes" pretty quickly, and without a great deal of soul-searching, too.

i need to think about that for awhile.